Today has started off on a great note. I am thankful for my family, friends, and for the life that I have been given. I am the type of person who enjoys surprises and planning surprises for other people. Recently, I planned a little surprise and I was in suspense because I knew about the surprise and the other person did not know. Well, a few hours ago, I found out that the surprise brightened the person's day. These days, it helps to know that there are people in your life who want to see you smile. Well, today, I would like to discuss the mindset of some men who think that their lives are over because they do not have a woman in their life.
Let's begin.....
Some men think that they have to have a woman in their lives at all times. These men think that they have to portray a certain image in front of their friends. They want to be accepted and they feel that a woman will help them to earn that acceptance from others. But if you want to earn acceptance from your friends, you need to be yourself. Whether a woman is on your arm or not, you need to be able to hold your own when you are around your friends.
Some men think that they need a woman because they want to be like their friends who have girlfriends. In life, it is not good to be a follower. If you follow your friends, that means that you will do what they do in order to fit in with them. You do not know what your friends are doing in order to keep the girlfriend that they have. Just because your friends have girlfriends, it does not mean that you have to have one. Your friends should be able to hang out with you whether you have a girlfriend or not.
Some men feel that they need a woman because they are tired of being alone. They want someone who will love them for who they are. They want someone who will support them in their endeavors. But more importantly, they want someone who will love them for their positive traits as well as their flaws. But the biggest part of this is the alone part. Do not pick a person because you are alone. You do not need to make any decisions when you feel alone and desperate. The worst decisions made in desperation tend to affect people for a lifetime. Get your life in order and then you will be able to make a sound decision on who you want to be with.
Your life is not over because you do not have a woman....invest in pursuing your goals until she comes along.
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