I hope that your day is going well. My day is going good so far. I have had an interesting week where I have been working on a mini-proposal for my qualifying examinations. In any event, it is slowly coming together. My main goal for this term is to pass qualifying examinations and then become a candidate for my doctoral degree. This morning, I was thinking about the word love and what it really means in relationships. Today, I am going to discuss relationships and how they change over time.
Let's begin.....
Relationships change over time when one person is hurting the other person. The person that makes you cry is a person who enjoys hurting you. This person does not value you as a person. But the person who dries your tears is a person who understands your pain and they want to make sure that they never give you a reason to cry over them. When hurt enters the picture, it will be hard for the relationship to return to the way that it used to be unless both people are willing to work through it.
Relationships change over time because our interests change. One moment, you love a person and the next moment, you hate them. Why does this happen? It happens because humans are never satisfied. There is always something new that catches our eyes. Even when your interests change, you need to make this known to your partner so that they can do what they can to accommodate your needs.
Relationships change over time because one person seems to give more than they get from the other person. If you give more than what you actually get, you need to know that you may not get what you want. In some cases, giving to a person is a great thing. If you are giving to a person and they always have an excuse as to why they can't give anything to you, then you are probably wasting your time. If you are giving more than what you are getting, then you need to take some time to examine what you really want out of the relationship.
Relationships change over time but it happens when you least expect it. But when the relationship changes, are you willing to change with it? I would hope so. Change is some cases is good. It could mean that things are going to improve between the two of you. But no matter what happens, it is always good to keep an open mind when it comes to your relationship.
Relationships will change but you have to be willing to change with it.
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